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250+ questions to get to know

The best questions to get to know someone

Getting to know someone can be really difficult. But this article will help you with that: we've gathered 250+ great questions to ask a boy, girl, or your friends for an in-depth conversation!

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Why ask questions?

In order to meet new people and strengthen relationships with them, it is important to ask the right questions. While you exchange your darkest thoughts, deepest longings and greatest dreams, you simultaneously raise the relationship to a whole new level. The questions in this article are ideal for you if you want to get closer to someone in particular. Our collection of 250+ questions is divided into six different categories so that you can easily find the right questions for your individual situation. Have fun browsing!

Our collection of 250+ questions

Here you will find our collection of 250+ questions to get to know someone else better. First we collected 50 questions each for boys and then 50 questions for girls. These two lists are ideal for you if you want to get closer to someone of the opposite sex. I mean, wouldn't all men want to know what their dream woman is thinking? Or every woman what her dream man really feels? The third category is full of questions to ask your friends. It doesn't matter whether they are old friends or you have just met them, you will definitely learn something new. The last three categories are intended for fun, but in-depth, conversations. And if these six categories are not enough for you: At the end we will present you the best 20 questions for your “20 questions” game!

50 questions for guys

  1. What do you find attractive in a woman?
  2. Would you rather take a bubble bath or take a hot shower?
  3. What turns you on
  4. Would you make breakfast for the girl of your dreams
  5. How do you drink your coffee
  6. What is making you insecure?
  7. What turns you on about a woman?
  8. Would you rather sleep with your cousin or end the relationship with your true love?
  9. On a scale from 1 to 10, how attractive do you think you are?
  10. Would you rather be with someone taller or shorter than you?
  11. Which Disney Prince Are You Most Likely To Be?
  12. What makes a "real man" for you?
  13. Would you rather send nude photos to your family or share them on the internet?
  14. If you could be a girl for one day what would you do first?
  15. Would you rather wear sweatpants for the rest of your life or never again?
  16. Would you like a girl too if she is much bigger than you?
  17. Are women and men equal?
  18. Would you rather always be underdressed or overdressed?
  19. What is the first thing you notice about a woman?
  20. Which actor would you play in a movie about your life?
  21. Would you rather swim in a pool full of Nutella or maple syrup?
  22. What's the worst and the best thing about being a man?
  23. Would you rather marry the hottest or smartest person in the world?
  24. Would you rather meet your true love today or win the lottery next year?
  25. What would you do if a man asked for your number?
  26. Have you ever had a sex dream?
  27. What are unfulfilled dreams in your life?
  28. Where would you like to live when you retire?
  29. What things should a girl know about you before you start dating?
  30. Would you rather have a child every year for the next 20 years or never have children?
  31. Who is your dream woman, dead or alive?
  32. What does cheating mean to you?
  33. What do you personally think of your friends' relationships?
  34. Would you rather have a small role in a really good movie or the lead role in a very bad one?
  35. What do you think of leg hair?
  36. Would you rather always have a little stone or mud in your shoes?
  37. What's your favourite song?
  38. Would you rather be happy or rich?
  39. What have you been dreaming of since you were a child?
  40. What's the cutest thing you've ever made for a girl?
  41. What do you think of kids
  42. What do you think love looks like?
  43. Would you like to always know what time it is or would you rather always have change in your pocket?
  44. What's one thing about the opposite sex that turns you on?
  45. Would you rather be an unknown hero or a known villain?
  46. Would you rather have everyone read your mind or view your internet history?
  47. Do you believe in God?
  48. What has been the best day of your life so far?
  49. Would you rather just make out or have sex for six hours, but only for seven minutes?
  50. Would you rather drink a body from someone or offer someone to do this from your body?

50 questions for girls

  1. What would you do if a girl turned you on and wanted your phone number?
  2. How do you know you are in love?
  3. Would you rather look great on selfies, but you look terrible when other people take a photo of you or vice versa?
  4. Would you rather have some dog or cat food as a side dish with each of your meals?
  5. What do you think of feminism?
  6. Would you rather forget how to speak or read?
  7. If you got pregnant today what would you do?
  8. What should a boy know about you before you start dating?
  9. Would you rather have to dance every time someone hums something or can never sing again?
  10. What's an important thing about women that men should understand, but still most don't?
  11. Would you rather be in prison for five years or in a coma for ten years?
  12. What's your favorite smell?
  13. What's the worst and the best thing about being a woman?
  14. Would you rather have to wear high heels or slippers all day and everywhere?
  15. What's the stupid thing about being in a relationship?
  16. Would you rather do it with the lights on or off?
  17. What is your opinion on marriage?
  18. Would you rather trade intelligence for beauty or beauty for intelligence?
  19. Would you still like a boy even if he was much shorter than you?
  20. How important is honesty to you in a relationship?
  21. If you were a man what would you do first?
  22. Would you rather be caught in a food fight or a water balloon fight?
  23. What do you think of when men refuse to use a condom?
  24. Would you rather be up or down?
  25. What is your opinion on the expression “gentlemen”?
  26. Would you go out with two men on the same day?
  27. Would you rather eat as much chocolate as you want with no negative effect or $ 1 million?
  28. Which Disney princess would you be?
  29. What thing are you more than enough of?
  30. What is your favorite memory?
  31. What qualities do you look for in a man?
  32. Would you rather go on a cruise with your boss or never go on vacation again?
  33. Do you find older men sexy?
  34. Would you rather that you be blamed for a murder you didn't do or that your best friend be blamed for a murder you did?
  35. Can I call you if I want to hear your voice?
  36. Which actress would you play in a movie about your life?
  37. What's your favorite song
  38. What was the last concert you went to?
  39. On a scale from 1 to 10, how attractive do you think you are?
  40. Would you rather play chess or checkers?
  41. What thing is romanticized in modern culture these days, but shouldn't it be?
  42. What's the worst thing you've ever done in your life?
  43. Do you think balding is sexy?
  44. Would you rather die in 20 years with no regrets or live another 100 years with many regrets?
  45. What's the ugliest piece of clothing you own?
  46. Which language would you like to be able to speak fluently?
  47. What do you love about yourself
  48. Would you rather be respected by the whole world or would you rather have power over the whole world?
  49. Have you ever been in love with someone and it wasn't reciprocated?
  50. Would you rather die before or after your partner?

50 questions for you and your friends

  1. What's the most forbidden thing you've ever done?
  2. Would you rather lose your eyesight or all of your memories?
  3. What was the best gift you have ever given someone?
  4. Which food would you never try?
  5. What is / was your favorite subject at school?
  6. Would you rather give up air conditioning and heating or the internet for the rest of your life?
  7. What does the perfect burger look like for you?
  8. Have you ever experienced something that you cannot scientifically explain?
  9. Would you rather never stop growing or never have to sleep?
  10. How many cell phones have you broken or lost?
  11. What is the most useless thing you ever learned in school?
  12. Would you rather live a year in war or in prison?
  13. How about the exact opposite of you?
  14. How would you save the world
  15. What are you most afraid of in your future?
  16. Would you rather have 10 more years with your partner or a one night stand with your celebrity crush?
  17. Which country do you not know more about than its name?
  18. What's the best commercial you've ever seen?
  19. How would you explain what "love" is?
  20. Would you rather forget your partner's birthday or anniversary every year?
  21. What's the most disgusting thing you've ever tasted?
  22. What's one thing that always relaxes you when you're totally stressed out?
  23. What has something about that once stressed you very much, but then really didn't matter?
  24. Would you rather be able to fly or breathe underwater?
  25. What does your dream room look like?
  26. What makes you special
  27. What have been the turning points in your life so far?
  28. Would you rather lose the ability to read or speak?
  29. Do you prefer to go to the cinema or a concert?
  30. What was your favorite toy as a kid?
  31. What would you grab the first thing if your house was on fire?
  32. Would you rather make a useful invention or discover a new species?
  33. What was the biggest mistake in history?
  34. How did you meet your best friend?
  35. Which book have you read more than once?
  36. What does your perfect breakfast look like?
  37. What makes you very angry
  38. Why are you often unable to fall asleep?
  39. Would you rather have the end of every movie spoiled for you before you see it, or that you never get to see a movie completely finished?
  40. Have you ever got your heart broken
  41. Would you rather never be able to leave your house or be in your house for more than five minutes?
  42. What was the last time you cried and why?
  43. How old would you like to be forever?
  44. Would you rather always wash your hair with dish soap or your dishes with shampoo?
  45. In which moments does time pass very quickly for you and when does it pass very slowly?
  46. What are your hobbies?
  47. What's the real story behind your last post on Instagram?
  48. Who is your favorite fictional character and why?
  49. Would you rather drink pure syrup or just water forever?
  50. What is your most unusual fear?

50 fun questions

  1. What's the strangest dream you've ever had?
  2. What was the most embarrassing moment of your life?
  3. Have you ever had a crush on an animated character?
  4. Which alcoholic drink best describes your personality and why?
  5. How long would you survive in a zombie apocalypse?
  6. What have you been doing wrong most of your life and only recently got aware of it?
  7. Would you rather have a photographic memory or an IQ of 200?
  8. Would you rather have to walk slowly over hot coals or put your hand on a hot plate for ten seconds?
  9. What are your favorite series as a kid?
  10. What's the most unreal thing you've ever convinced someone to be true?
  11. What childish thing do you still like?
  12. Would you rather change the outcome of the previous election or decide the outcome of the next?
  13. What was your most embarrassing moment in school (so far)?
  14. Would you rather be able to buy only used underwear or only used toothbrushes?
  15. Who is famous for their talent but shouldn't be?
  16. What's the disgusting food combination you can imagine?
  17. Which reality TV show would you like to be on?
  18. How old do you feel right now
  19. What's the strangest hobby you've ever heard of?
  20. Do you believe in aliens
  21. What's the weirdest celebrity crush you've ever had?
  22. If you could get rid of handshakes as a greeting, what would you replace it with?
  23. What's the most embarrassing tattoo you've ever seen?
  24. Which food combination is kind of weird, but you still like it?
  25. What's the strangest thing you ever did as a kid?
  26. Would you rather get all your cash for the rest of your life in cents or never use cash again?
  27. What's the strangest way you've made friends with someone?
  28. What's the craziest thing you've ever done
  29. What's the most unnecessary argument you've ever had?
  30. Would you rather have to wear high heels or slippers everywhere? F.
  31. What's the strangest conversation you've ever overheard?
  32. What's the most unnecessary gift you've ever received?
  33. What's the most embarrassing thing you've ever done to get someone's attention?
  34. Would you rather just drink water or never eat cookies again?
  35. What's the worst series / movie you've ever seen?
  36. If you had the chance, which fictional character would you marry?
  37. What's your most embarrassing sex story?
  38. What are you too old for but still enjoying it?
  39. If you were a ghost, who would you visit?
  40. Would you rather get lost in the jungle or the desert?
  41. Would you rather always have to say what you are thinking or never say anything again?
  42. When and how did you find out that Santa Claus is not real?
  43. What was your strangest habit as a kid?
  44. What was the most uncomfortable moment you've ever farted?
  45. Would you rather be a brilliant scientist or a famous painter?
  46. What's the best joke you know
  47. When was the last time you laughed so much that you had to cry?
  48. What's the strangest thing you've ever done because you were bored?
  49. If you could be an animal, which one would it be?
  50. Would you rather have to play a board game or card game every day?

25 deep questions

  1. How have you changed over the past few years?
  2. Would you rather have to spend every weekend at home or away from home?
  3. What's the most interesting fact that you know?
  4. How would you describe your relationship with your family?
  5. How did you deal with your feelings and emotions in your childhood?
  6. What was an example where you really got out of your comfort zone?
  7. Would you rather have monobrow hair or back hair?
  8. What is the most important part of a friendship?
  9. What is the most important thing that you have learned in your life?
  10. Would you rather be able to see your own future or the future of anyone else?
  11. What's the worst advice you've ever been given?
  12. What was the happiest moment of your life?
  13. What are you most grateful for?
  14. Would you rather oversleep for a week every day or not be able to sleep at all for four days?
  15. What always makes you laugh?
  16. Would you rather never memorize other people's faces or their names?
  17. How do you deal with difficult situations?
  18. Would you rather see very poorly at a young age, but keep your hair on your head or go bald at a young age, but always be able to see well?
  19. Where do you see yourself in five years?
  20. What did you understand far too late?
  21. When you were a kid, what did you think then, is the best thing about being an adult?
  22. Have you ever lost someone close to you?
  23. What are you unsure of?
  24. Would you rather have the legs of a frog or the head of a fly?
  25. If you died in a year what would you change in your life?

25 questions to think about

  1. What is a good life?
  2. Would you rather know all the secrets of space or the sea?
  3. What do you think will happen after we die?
  4. Why do we dream
  5. If you could move anywhere in the world where would you live?
  6. Out of everyone in the world, who would you like to have dinner with?
  7. Would you rather get to know your favorite fictional character or musician?
  8. What three things do you want to achieve before you die?
  9. What's your first memory
  10. What more adventures would you like to have in your life?
  11. Would you rather go on vacation on the mountain or by the sea?
  12. What do you miss most about your childhood?
  13. What do you hate about politicians?
  14. What is your dream job and why?
  15. What is your favorite superpower?
  16. What are your life dreams and what do you want for your future?
  17. Would you rather always wear shoes or earrings that don't go together?
  18. If you fell into a coma now and didn't wake up until 2120, what would you like to know first?
  19. Would you rather always stink and not know or always smell something bad and not know where it came from?
  20. In which fictional universe would you most like to live?
  21. If you could decide the front page of the newspaper tomorrow, what would you want to publish?
  22. What do you wish you would have known as a child?
  23. Would you rather each after sleepwalking or talking in your sleep?
  24. If you could see into your future what would you like to see?
  25. If you had the super power to make yourself invisible, what would you do?

Bonus: The best questions for the game 20 questions

  1. Imagine you got a million euros, what would you do with it?
  2. Who is the happiest person you know
  3. Would you rather have an automated home or a self-driving car?
  4. Would you rather marry someone you don't love or someone who doesn't love you?
  5. What's the most supernatural thing that has ever happened to you?
  6. How do you imagine your future family?
  7. What are selfless things that others have done to improve your life?
  8. What does your name mean?
  9. What was the best meal you have ever eaten?
  10. What is the most unnecessary animal?
  11. Which film have you seen more than seven times?
  12. What is the most beautiful dialect there is in your mother tongue?
  13. What do you think other people think when they see you?
  14. Would you like to never be stuck in traffic or never have a cold again?
  15. What was your hardest decision so far?
  16. Would you rather live on the beach or in the mountains?
  17. What is the most beautiful word for you?
  18. What could you talk about all day
  19. Would you rather be a famous guitarist or a famous singer?
  20. Do you prefer to be in the center of attention or in the background unnoticed?

✍️ May 25, 2020

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